Cher decided to ‘loan out’ her virginity at 14 after being ‘dismissed’ by a boy: ‘I had revenge sex’

Cher revealed she lost her virginity at age 14 as a “revenge” tactic.

In her new book, “Cher: The Memoir, Part One,” the “Believe” songstress recalls that a boy in her neighborhood was dismissive of her and “ditched” her after they shared a kiss.

“I was so hurt when he did that, I had revenge sex with him. I had never wanted to,” Cher writes in an excerpt obtained by People.

“Otherwise, I would have done it one of the five hundred other times he asked.”

Cher, pictured here in 1986, reflects on having sex for the first time in her new book, “Cher: The Memoir, Part One.” Getty Images
After the Grammy winner felt “dismissed” by a boy when she was 14, she decided to have sex with him as a “revenge” tactic. FilmMagic
“I was so hurt when he did that, I had revenge sex with him. I had never wanted to,” Cher, pictured here in 2018, writes in the book. REUTERS

“I was so angry at being dismissed, I decided to, if not lose, loan out my virginity to him,” the 78-year-old pop icon shares in the book.

Cher goes on to admit that having sex for the first time felt like a “massively overrated” experience and she rejected him in return immediately after.

“When what turned out to be a massively overrated experience came to an end, I asked him, ‘Is that it? Are we finished?’ Then I told him to go home and never come back,” the Grammy winner writes.

“I was so angry at being dismissed, I decided to, if not lose, loan out my virginity to him,” Cher writes in her memoir, which was released on Nov. 19. Getty Images
The 78-year-old describes her first time having sex as a “massively overrated experience” and reveals that she then rejected the boy. Redferns

“I wanted him to feel just as dismissed as he’d made me feel.”

Cher claims the boy later tried to reconcile with her, but she never spoke to him again.

In the memoir, the “Moonstruck” actress also recalls fearing her mother’s reaction to her having sex for the first time.

“I wanted him to feel just as dismissed as he’d made me feel,” Cher, pictured here with her first husband, Sonny Bono, adds. Mondadori via Getty Images
Cher married Bono in 1964, but they split by 1975. Redferns

“My mother warned me that the minute I lost my virginity she’d know because she’d see it in my eyes, so after the romp with the Italian, I ran to the mirror to check,” she writes.

Despite being anxious of her mother’s reaction, Cher explains that her mother never seemed to notice anything different after the incident.

“I half expected to see the word SEX flashing in fluorescent letters across my forehead, but I couldn’t spot anything different, and she didn’t either,” she writes.

By 1975, Cher married fellow musician Gregg Allman before they called it quits in 1979. Getty Images
Cher has been linked to Alexander Edwards, 38, since November 2022. Patrick McMullan via Getty Images

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